Yea I've been far too quiet...

I've had a lot to think about... a lot to do... Life is generally crazy.

I know I sometimes carry on about the reason why people enter our lives, but I think I'm perhaps finally done with learning lessons.

I thought long and hard about why somebody had entered my life, turned everything upside down and left without a word leaving me to pick up the mess.
My lesson: stop allowing anybody into my life. Stop allowing the broken people to take advantage of me. I decided a while back to focus on me. To look after me first. That was my lesson.

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